DO YOU LOVE ME FOREVER OR FOR NOW?

SO HAS MANY OF YOU MAY HAVE HEARD, EVA LONGRIA AND TONY PARKER HAVE FILED FOR DIVORCE. RUMOR #1 IS THAT HE CHEATED ON HER WITH A FAMILY FRIEND.(ITS ALWAYS THE ONE PERSON YOU TRUST RIGHT?? ) #2 THAT HE CHEATED ON HER WITH HIS TEAM MATE WIFE... SCANDALOUS!

IS IT ME OR ARE A LOT OF CELEBRITIES GETTING BREAKING UP AND GETTING A DIVORCE? FOR 2010 ITS BEEN ALOT OF BREAKUPS INSTEAD OF MAKEUPS.

WHICH BRINGS ME TO MY POST. WHATS THE DEAL WITH THAT?! LOL! SERIOUSLY WHY ARE SO MANY PEOPLE READY TO JUST THROW DIVORCE OUT ON THE TABLE SO QUICKLY? WHEN YOU WALK DOWN THE AISLE AND MAKE YOUR VOWS IN FRONT OF YOUR FRIENDS AND FAMILY DON'T YOU SAY "I DO" ? SO HOW CAN ONE GO ABOUT CHEATING ON HIS OR HER SPOUSE? IS ONE MINUTE IN HEAVEN OR A NIGHT OF PASSION REALLY WORTH LOSING EVERYTHING YOU BUILT WITH YOUR CURRENT RELATIONSHIP?

TODAY MY BOYFRIEND AND I WERE DISCUSSING DIVORCE AND I WAS VERY HAPPY TO KNOW HIM AND I DON'T BELIEVE IN DIVORCE. I AM DETERMINED WHEN I DO BECOME HIS WIFE TO LIVE UP TO MY VOWS AND TAKE THEM VERY SERIOUSLY. WE BOTH DON'T WANT TWO HOUSES WITH TWO LIVES FOR OUR KIDS. AND THE DRAMA THAT WOULD PROBABLY OCCUR?? NO THANKS! BUT DON'T GET ME WRONG IF IT BECOMES SO SERIOUS THAT TO THE POINT WHERE I OR HE THINKS OF PUTTING OUR KIDS THROUGH SUCH A SERIOUS ORDEAL, THAN YEAH WE SHOULD SEPARATE. TAKE SOME TIME TO SEE WHERE WE WANNA BE. BUT NOT A DIVORCE.

BECAUSE OF SO MANY DIVORCES THAT ARE GOING AROUND DO YOU REALLY BLAME PEOPLE WHO JUST CHOSE TO SHACK UP? LIVE A COHABIT LIFE RAISING KIDS, HAVING PETS, AND ALL THAT WITH NO LEGAL COMMITMENT. IF THEY WERE TO BREAK UP THEY WOULD HAVE TO DECIDE WITHIN THEIR RELATIONSHIP WHO GETS WHAT AND NOT HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT HAVING TO DIVORCE. YES, IT CAN STILL BE HARD BUT ITS NOT THE SAME IN MY OPINION.

I THINK SO MANY PEOPLE ARE GETTING MARRIED AND FORGETTING THE BEAUTY OF HAVING A HUSBAND/WIFE. ITS A DEEP AND MEANINGFUL EXPERIENCE THAT SO MANY DREAM OF FROM A YOUNG AGE. SO WHY IS IT SO MANY PEOPLE WHO DO SPEND MONEY ON THEIR WEDDING ARE DOING THE SAME FOR THEIR DIVORCE? THINK ABOUT IT. DO PEOPLE WHO GET DIVORCE THINK OF FOREVER OR FOR NOW?