Do you remember what it was like in the first months of your realtionship? When you woke up thinking about ur beau and falling asleep on the phone with them until 3 am? You scribble down thier name and begin to start thinking where ya'll will live and everything? I know me and my boyfriend were even thinking about moving in together after 4 months of dating! Getting in trouble almost every night because WE had to spend night together or we couldnt sleep. Going out every weekend because you had to show everyone your great lover by your side. Your constant smile and the floating in the air. And now, we fast forward to 2 years.
Now we hardly even wait for each other to go to bed. Dinner is optional because your too lazy to cook every night. We argue about who left the seat up? Or ate the last Oreo. Movie Nights are no longer because he falls asleep right before the movie even begins. And all your damn girlfriend seems to is nag on how you dont do anything she ask for you to do. and when you do what she had asked for you get in trouble anyway! You just cant seem to win!
So what are you to do? You thought of breaking up but it kills you to be without them. And you have had multiple guys who have come and hit on you but the pain of the guilt you are feeling can only lead to more pain then pleasure.
A healthy long-term relationship is something to be proud of, and couples need to celebrate that. We also need to make it clear to family and friends—and especially to each other—that your relationship as a couple is the most important relationship in your life. Couples, therefore, need to work at keeping romance alive in long-term relationships.
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